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What to wear

Dressing for four days

Plan five outfits. The Haldi and Mela share one, as do the Baraat and Ceremony. Indian and Western clothing are both welcome unless noted.

Bring layers and shoes you can stand and dance in. Most venues have cobblestones or old stone floors. Please do not wear red to the Baraat or Ceremony; white is fine.

Welcome dinnerCasual

Casual. Come straight from the airport if that is easiest.

Indian attire
  • · A simple kurta
  • · Any comfortable everyday outfit
Western attire
  • · Jeans or chinos and a shirt
  • · A casual dress or separates

Keep in mind: Bring a layer.

Haldi & MelaYellow · Indian or Western

Wear yellow. One outfit works for both events.

Wedding guests wearing different shades of yellow at a Haldi celebration
Yellow, any shade
Indian attire
  • · A kurta
  • · A cotton salwar kameez or sari
Western attire
  • · A sundress
  • · A linen shirt with light trousers

Keep in mind: Choose light fabric and comfortable shoes.

SangeetIndian festive

Indian festive. This is the colorful, dressed-up dance night.

Blue embroidered kurta with white trousers
Kurta
Colorful embroidered anarkali dress
Anarkali
Blue lehenga with colorful floral embroidery
Lehenga
Bright blue sari with gold details
Sari
Indian attire
  • · A lehenga, anarkali, or worked salwar kameez
  • · A silk kurta, bandhgala, or sherwani
Western attire
  • · A colorful cocktail dress
  • · A suit in a festive color

Keep in mind: Wear danceable shoes and bring a layer.

Baraat & CeremonyIndian or Western formal

Indian or Western formal. One outfit works for both events.

Cream sherwani with gold embroidery
Sherwani
Green sari with a pink border
Sari
Green formal dress with floral details
Formal dress
Indian attire
  • · A sari, lehenga, or anarkali
  • · A sherwani or kurta with a Nehru jacket
Western attire
  • · A formal day dress or jumpsuit
  • · A suit in a light or festive color

Keep in mind: No red. Bring sunscreen and danceable shoes.

ReceptionWestern formal

Western formal. Dinner and dancing will run late into the night.

Black suit with a white shirt and black tie
Suit
Burgundy formal gown
Formal gown
Navy sari with silver details
Sari
Indian attire
  • · An Indo-Western gown
  • · A formal sari
Western attire
  • · A gown or cocktail dress
  • · A dark suit or tuxedo

Keep in mind: Bring a coat or wrap. Shuttles will run to the venue.

Shopping for Indian clothing

Simple Indian outfits are often available on Amazon. For a wider range of Indian formalwear, try Pernia's Pop-Up Shop, Utsav Fashion, or House of Indya; the Bay Area shops below are useful if you would rather try things on.